I’ve been pondering this question for years. Why is it more acceptable for women to wear the pants in the relationship than the man? I have some friends who will be named A and B who are married and A is so proud that her man will do whatever she says. She’ll come out and say it, “oh B will do it because I told him to”. A nags him all the time and I’m sure it embarrasses him because she’ll do it in front of anyone. Almost as if she is his mother.
Now they have a baby and it’s even worse. “Are you gonna help me get him ready or just sit there?”, she”ll say to him. And all she has to do is put him in the car seat!!
I feel bad for B. He works his butt off so she can stay home and she treats him like that?! A while ago, way before the baby, we were all out one night and someone said to her “you’re gonna have to tell me how to get my husband to do that.” Pretty much jump when I say jump kinda thing. I thought to myself if that were the other way around he would be a controlling a-hole!!!
I don’t think it’s right for any one person in a relationship to have all the control and some girls want that but they would NEVER allow themselves to be treated like that! What’s up with that? And I actually now more women like this than I do men. Does anyone know anyone like this or maybe an explanation to why?