This is happening close to my husband and I. We have a close group of friends and it seems like they compete for everything. First it started out who was getting married first. So, now they are all married. Well guess what the next “first” was? Who was going to get pregnant first and now it’s a race to see who can get pregnant the second time “first.”
It just stuns me that they are seeing life as a race or a competition. I don’t understand why they are doing this. My husband and I compete with no one. If it’s something we want we get it and if not, we don’t.
The things they are competing for are life changing things. Why???? Does anyone else have friends/siblings that do things like this or that this happens to? Is it just a peer pressure thing???