Do we ever outgrow sibling rivalry??? I have 4 girls and it seems like they are always questioning how much I give the other one. Whether it’s money, attention, shopping, love, etc….They just don’t ever stop. I feel like I can’t win.
Everyone keeps telling me to get used to it, it only gets worse as they get older. They will fight over your attention, how much you help the other one over them and oh wait till they have children. It will then be you give more, or more help, to the other grandchild.
Oh how I don’t want it to come to that. Any ideas on how I can stop it now? They range in age from 3-17 so they all have different needs, wants etc. So they don’t always get the same. I keep telling them it’s because they are all their own individual person.
The 17 year old just got her belly button pierced, now the 3 year old asks to get it done. The answer is NO. Yes I let your sister but you are only 3!! BIG DIFFERENCE. Understand what I mean? How can I make them understand it now so I don’t have bigger problems when they get older???