Question of the day

When talking to someone while standing, are your arms usually at your sides, in your pickets, crossed in front of you or gesturing descriptively?

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10 Responses to Question of the day

  1. SKL says:

    In front of me, but not crossed; my hands will be lightly clasped or holding something. I used to do the crossed arms thing, but I forced myself to stop that since it looks defensive and unfriendly.

  2. Elena says:

    I am hyper aware of my hands and I will adjust them according to who I am talking to. With a creepy stranger that I can’t avoid cuz we’re standing in line at the post office or some such, definitely cross my arms. With someone I’m trying to impress like a potential client, I will clasp my hands in a classy fashion in front of me. Talking to a friend or one of my kids, I’ll wave and gesture with abandon.

  3. Eric & Tessa says:

    We all know Eric’s answer, and when I’m shy I think I keep them at my sides mostly-but use my hands when I’m comfortable.

  4. Eric & Tessa says:

    SKI, i stopped myself too when I read that it looks like that! It is so true too. It makes others more comfortable when you use your hands while talking, cuz you’re more comfortable.

  5. Joy says:

    I usually cross my arms or have them in my pockets. I don’t think I look unfriendly though.

  6. Tessa says:

    You’re very friendly Joy! I cannot recall you ever crossing your arms while talking to us though.

  7. nikki says:

    I cross my arms or put them in my pockets. I don’t think it make you look unfriendly, unless that is you have a snotty look on your face. I feel weird just letting them hang there.

  8. joanharvest says:

    None of the above. My arms are resting on my cane so I don’t fall on my A**.

  9. kweenmama says:

    My arms are usually crossed unless I am talking about something I am passionate about, then I am gesturing like crazy.

  10. Sue says:

    I do it all! I gesture, I stand relaxed, and I have them crossed. It’s a body language thing. When your arms are crossed you look closed off to people and maybe defensive, like you don’t want anybody in your personal space.

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