Category Archives: marriage

Happy Anniversary To Us

♥ Happy 32nd anniversary to my husband Paul. On one hand it seems like forever and on the other I wonder where all the time went. Cheers to us  ♥ Wow!!! Look at the clothes!! Paul’s parents are on the left … Continue reading

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Fighting

Some people fight because the wife has too many throw pillows or the husband won’t put the seat down. What is the quirky pet peeve at your house? Do you let it go a lot of the time and what … Continue reading

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Cheater Cheater Pumpkin Eater

If it’s virtual, does it constitute cheater-cheater-pumpkin eater? And, if the answer is yes, is ‘non-physical’ cheating more or less offensive than ‘going all the way?’ Inspired by Gayle King

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snorrrrrrr……..ING

This was the Good Question the other night and Paul and I just looked at each other and laughed. Can snoring be stopped? LOL!! NO! OH HELL NO!!! Snoring. I’d like to have a quarter for the amount of times … Continue reading

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Do opposites attract?

Do opposites attract? Do you think mixed marriages make it HARDER or MORE EXCITING and FUN? Are you in a relationship with someone who’s your opposite that works? Or did you partner with your opposite and just couldn’t make it … Continue reading

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How do you feel about this?

William and Kate have, between them, asked SIX of their exes to the royal wedding. Many are balking that this is unacceptable. What do you think? Would you/have you invited an ex to your wedding? How did you navigate that … Continue reading

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Your cheating heart….

“Cheaters don’t define infidelity; their partner’s do.” And, social media has made the slippery slope of ‘cheater-cheater-pumpkin-eaters,’ even more slippery. In this modern day world, how do you define ‘infidelity?’ A torrid love affair? A one night stand? A platonic, … Continue reading

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A New Way to Do Things

I’ve been inspired by Joy’s post on heirlooms to write about Bridal Showers.  I know why we have them, but seriously, I think we should completely revamp the entire system.  Brides-to-be shouldn’t be wandering around, scanning everything in the store … Continue reading

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Family Heirlooms

Laura and I were chatting one morning and I’m not sure what brought it up. We were talking about getting rid of things. Both Paul and  Steve have a hard time with that. I told her I had a hard … Continue reading

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See? WE TOLD YOU!!!

take note, men… even the horses know:

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Sleeping

Falling asleep. Is it easy or hard for you? I had an eye doctor appointment yesterday morning and I was on the road by 9:15. I was sitting at a light in Buffalo waiting for the left turn light to … Continue reading

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Did you notice it??

Laura had a big family wedding this weekend so I’m putting in this post instead of the Pull Up Monday. Think of this post as the same. Share, vent, converse, but be kind to each other. My husband really cracks … Continue reading

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Can Money Buy Happiness?

This is a really good question. Can money buy happiness? I think the answer to this question is going to vary depending on the age of the person you ask. I really do feel when you’re young and in love, … Continue reading

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It your own fault if this happens……

Okay, it’s no secret that I’ve been really depressed lately. The humidity and heat have kept me inside a lot of the time and that in turn leads my head to the “feeling sorry for myself” thoughts I get at … Continue reading

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Can Facebook And Twitter Harm Your Marriage?

When this came on the news, I knew it was going to be something that would interest me and I was anxious to hear it. Can Facebook and Twitter harm your marriage? I guess I thought it would slam social … Continue reading

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Happy 10th Anniversary Jason and Nikki

Happy 10th Anniversary Jason and Nikki. It really does just seem like yesterday. Awe. I remember this day so clearly. Cheers to you guys. Grab some cake and share the joy of the day. Let’s all toast this great couple … Continue reading

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Reason for falling out of love

I’ve been in recent contact with an old friend. I have to admit that I haven’t talked to her in about 6 years and in that time both our lives have really changed. We got reconnected quite by accident. Someone … Continue reading

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THE REASON WHY WEDDING RING IS WORN ON FOURTH FINGER.

Someone I know had this on Facebook and I loved it and I hope you enjoy it too. It’s pretty cool.

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Can marriage survive an affair?

There has been so much talk lately of people who are having or have had an affair. From the governor of South Carolina and John Edward’s, as well as many others and I won’t name them all. I’m sure you all … Continue reading

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Oops…..

Have you ever called someone an ex’s name? Have you ever been called an ex’s name?  I know these things are called a “Freudian slip“. I could imagine it could be very hurtful.  It has happened to me twice. Yep, … Continue reading

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Sean and Vicki, today’s the day you say “I Do”

Happy Wedding Day To Sean and Vicki We wish you all our best.  Our friend, our neighbor and Sue’s aunt.  The American and the Brit.  Who’d a thunk it? Maybe you should get one of these to string with Christmas … Continue reading

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Is emotional cheating really “cheating”?

I’m not sure what the deal is with all the “emotional cheating” talk but it’s been discussed almost everywhere I’ve gone the last few days.  I saw one the other day that almost made me feel ill. I was watching a … Continue reading

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Just One Of The Guys!

If you’re new to this blog you will come to find that softball is a BIG part of our lives. Jason has played with the same guys going on 4 years now. As of the end of April, it will … Continue reading

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When to let go?

  So,  I find a box of old letters from ex girlfriends from over 10 years ago.  Why do I keep them?  I don’t know…I can’t throw them away…Can I? They don’t mean anything to me now except memories of a … Continue reading

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Do opposites really attract?

I think this is such an interesting topic.  Do you think opposites really attract or do you believe “birds of a feather flock together?” You can read a little more about it here if you want to. My personal opinion … Continue reading

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